Making Motivation Meaningful

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One of the things I often hear from peo­ple, friends and clients alike, is they need more moti­va­tion to be healthy.  By the time peo­ple come to me for sup­port on being healthy, they have tried many dif­fer­ent things.  They are moti­vated to make a change but don’t know where to start.  Or worse they try to do every­thing at once, become over­whelmed and quit.  So how do we moti­vate our­selves to make changes with­out becom­ing over­whelmed or stuck.

What is motivation?

Let’s start with under­stand­ing what motivation is:

Psy­chol­ogy Today defines motivation as

Moti­va­tion is lit­er­ally the desire to do things. It’s the dif­fer­ence between wak­ing up before dawn to pound the pave­ment and laz­ing around the house all day. It’s the cru­cial ele­ment in set­ting and attain­ing goals—and research shows you can influ­ence your own lev­els of moti­va­tion and self-control. So fig­ure out what you want, power through the pain period,

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Happy New Year 2012!

Happy New Year

2012 is here. There has been a lot of talk about the changes to come in 2012.  Nos­tradamus pre­dicted unprece­dented polit­i­cal, cli­mate, and finan­cial changes that would alter our world from this point on.  There is evi­dence many of these things are com­ing to pass.  We are just start­ing to come out of the worst eco­nomic decline we have seen since the Great Depres­sion.  Weather pat­terns are bring­ing dam­age and chaos to many parts of the world.  In the North­east alone we have suf­fered from a tor­nado, earth­quake, hur­ri­cane which brought dev­as­tat­ing flood­ing and a freak snow storm in Octo­ber but no snow for Christ­mas.  I have lived my whole life in the North­east and have never seen such destruc­tive weather hit all in one year.  In addi­tion, the unrest of oppressed peo­ple has top­pled long-standing regimes and brought polit­i­cal unrest through­out the world.

What hasn’t got­ten any air time

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Share a Wish

Love and grat­i­tude per­me­ate the air this hol­i­day sea­son. It is the one time a year, we col­lec­tively look around and appre­ci­ate those in our lives. We cel­e­brate and remind each other of what makes life truly valu­able (I’m not talk­ing about presents  . There is no bet­ter time to give thanks for our life and look for­ward to new begin­nings as we start another year.

In our fam­ily we cel­e­brate sev­eral tra­di­tions.  Today we cel­e­brate Sol­stice which is the change between autumn and win­ter.  It is the dark­est day of the year.  The cel­e­bra­tion is to wel­come back the return of the light.  We share our hopes for the com­ing year and cel­e­brate with a cer­e­mony, a time of giv­ing and a feast.

We also cel­e­brate Christ­mas and Santa.  But today is Sol­stice so I want to share my Sol­stice tra­di­tion of shar­ing a wish.  Wishes are like free magic. 

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Ten Rules For Being Human

Enlightenment

I was stum­bling around online the other night and came across this.  It felt true so I thought I would share it.  (By the way, if you enjoy ran­dom inter­est­ing infor­ma­tion you should use Stum­ble­upon.  You find the coolest things.)

Cherie Carter-Scott ref­er­ences the fol­low­ing quote as the basis for her rules for being human: “Life is a suc­ces­sion of lessons which must be lived to be under­stood.” (Helen Keller)

Ten Rules for Being Human

by Cherie Carter-Scott

You will receive a body. You may like it or hate it, but it’s yours to keep for the entire period. You will learn lessons.  You are enrolled in a full-time infor­mal school called, “life”. There are no mis­takes, only lessons.  Growth is a process of trial, error, and exper­i­men­ta­tion.  The “failed” exper­i­ments are as much a part of the process as the exper­i­ments that ulti­mately “work”. Lessons are repeated until

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Our deepest fear…

I love me

Our deep­est fear is not that we are inad­e­quate. Our deep­est fear is that we are pow­er­ful beyond mea­sure. It is our light, not our dark­ness that most fright­ens us. We ask our­selves, who am I to be bril­liant, gor­geous, tal­ented and fab­u­lous? Actu­ally, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your play­ing small doesn’t serve the world. There is noth­ing enlight­ened about shrink­ing so that other peo­ple won’t feel inse­cure around you. We were born to make man­i­fest the glory of God that is within us. It is not just in some of us: it’s in every­one. And when we let our own light shine, we uncon­sciously give other peo­ple per­mis­sion to do the same. As we are lib­er­ated from our own fear, our pres­ence auto­mat­i­cally lib­er­ates oth­ers.” ~ Mar­i­anne Williamson

The first time I read this, I was not

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Gratitude for another day…

Gratitude

This week­end my girl/boy twins turned 4 years old.  Birth­days are gen­er­ally for the peo­ple who were born but as a mother it is a cel­e­bra­tion as well.  We sur­vived the early years of long, tir­ing days and sleep­less nights.  Nurs­ing until past their 2nd birth­day and the gen­eral ter­ror of two beings able to per­form fatal acts.  This week­end I cel­e­brated the hard work of moth­er­ing and treated myself to reflect­ing on all our accom­plish­ments and strug­gles over the years.  We have all come so far in the past 4 years.  I encour­age all moms to cel­e­brate their role in the birth of their chil­dren.  Whether bio­log­i­cal or adopted moth­ers play a key role in a child’s liv­ing in this life.  Moms deserve a lit­tle recog­ni­tion for the hard work that they do.

The 4’s have also brought a new stage of devel­op­ment for the kids, Oppo­si­tion. You know that

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Surviving the Storm

Snow Blanketing a Tree

Phew!  What a week.  I am just now get­ting back to my com­puter to work again.  I can’t believe how much trou­ble a lit­tle snow can cause.  I grew up in Syra­cuse, NY.  Never heard of it?  Well, it’s known for hav­ing excep­tion­ally high lev­els of snow dur­ing the win­ter.  Actu­ally, it has been known to get more snow than any other U.S. city. Not sure if that is still true after the past few win­ters.  Buf­falo, NY has really been giv­ing Syra­cuse a run for its money.  This is all to say, I am famil­iar with the effect of a heavy snow fall.  Been there, done that.

You might imag­ine how odd it felt last week to pack up my kids and drive the 4 hours to Syra­cuse to escape the 15–20 inches of snow at our home in New Eng­land.  My Syra­cuse friends did not miss the irony.  According

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The Secret of #Success

Girl Crossing the Finish Line

A lot can be said for stand­ing back to observe how peo­ple talk about their life and goals.  I was recently vis­it­ing a new forum for peo­ple want­ing sup­port around get­ting healthy.  The forum was bro­ken out into dif­fer­ent forums for los­ing weight or train­ing for an event.  I started in the train­ing forum to see what was happening.

The train­ing forum was full of cel­e­bra­tions. Mem­bers cheer­ing each other on. Very high energy and excit­ing. I felt my spirit lift and I started dream­ing about run­ning. The body feels so strong after a good workout.

In the forum for los­ing weight, the mood was somber. The posts rid­dled with com­ments like, “strug­gling”, “my goal is to…,” “I have to…”.  All of the state­ments were exter­nally focused and laced with the feel­ing of dis­cour­age­ment.  The frus­tra­tion and lost hope made some of the posts too hard to read.

I was struck

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Gratitude improves every day

Silver lining

Find the sil­ver lining

Grat­i­tude has become a cor­ner­stone of my days. I don’t get to this post every week (though I think it would ben­e­fit me greatly if I did), but I have daily reminders of how blessed my life is.

Today I am grateful…

For hav­ing the resources to improve my life.  I am smart, learn quickly and have a pas­sion for help­ing other peo­ple.  It’s pay­ing off. I am grate­ful for the con­stant improve­ments in tech­nol­ogy that make work­ing from home with my kids pos­si­ble. Tech­nol­ogy has allowed me to make some won­der­ful friends.  We have never met but they help be get through every day and take my blog­ging to the next level. My chil­dren are healthy and grow­ing.  They are strong kids, with quick minds who love to learn and explore their world. I have love in my life.  I meet every per­son with a sense of loving

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Gratitude for today

I’ve been doing a lot of self-evaluation and goal set­ting this week.  Look­ing at my dreams for my life and future brings grat­i­tude and hope to the front of my consciousness.

Today I am grateful for…

1.  …hav­ing spent the time to get my edu­ca­tion when I was young.  There isn’t any­thing more I need to go to school to “learn.”  The rest of my learn­ing dwells in living life.

2.  …tak­ing the time to get clear on my dreams and set con­crete goals around what they will look like.

3.  …hav­ing a sup­port­ive fam­ily to encour­age me to do what makes me happy even if it doesn’t makes sense to them.

4.  …being healthy and strong.

5.  …the abil­ity to write and share my jour­ney with every­one that stops by my blog.

Being grate­ful puts a shine on the drea­ri­est of days.  What you are grate­ful for today?

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